Wearing of white outfit during weddings is part of the tradition; however, few modifications are made when we talk of the groom or the groomsman. They are free to wear white provided that the following guidelines are followed: be sure to stand out with white, wear white with caution, wearing white should not distract others attention, and pick other shades of white.

Wearing white-colored suit during a wedding is based on our tradition, which is symbolic of many things. For many, it may mean purity of heart and chastity, while for others like to relate it with elegance. Here are some of the rules related to wearing of white by the groom and the groomsman:

Be sure to stand out with white

Since the bride is not the only one who deserves the center of attraction, the groom can also wear white suit like tuxedo to make him stand out from the crowd. White is a radiant color that is capable of reflecting and shining brightly when worn in the presence of lights. Wearing of white suit will create a beautiful glow that can catch ones attention. Aside from white, black and gray are the recommended colors because they project elegance and sophistication.

Wear white with caution

The role of the groomsman is to assist the groom as much as possible during the wedding ceremony up to the reception area. He is an important figure who contributes a lot for the success of the wedding vow. However, it doesn’t mean that his presence would take away the attention the groom deserves. You should not outshine the groom by wearing a suit that is somewhat similar to his. This will lead the attendees out of focus if the groomsman will wear stunning attire.

Wearing white should not distract others attention

Wearing the traditional attire, which is white color, is not really a problem. The decision still depends on the preference of the couple. As long as the attire does not distract others attention, one can wear white but definitely with a style that is not that conspicuous. Do not mislead the guests as to who the groom is by wearing incomparable attire.

Pick other shades of white

If you really feel that there is a need for the groomsmen to wear white suits, pick a shade that is a little lighter or a bit darker than white. This may occur when traditions dictate you to do so, wherein you are left with no choice but to follow. The alternative colors may include off-white, cream, dirty white, and eggshell – all are shades of white. This is to help the guests differentiate the groom from the groomsmen. You must always remember that the wedding day is his day and not yours; therefore, give him a chance to shine on this very day. Give him the privilege to receive all the applause that is due to him.

A good advice for making a wedding romantic and truly special is to make the ceremony debt-free and low-key as possible. Couples should save their money and not pay much attention to wedding advices features in magazines. Love is basically between the couple that will be getting married so its best they focus on each other.

A morning wedding followed by a luncheon reception is ideal, as it will give the couple enough time for their honeymoon, starting a new life and have enough energy to perform immediate post-wedding activities. Over 200 guests waiting at an expensive sit-down dinner will not add anything special to the romance.

A morning wedding will also help the couple save money and their eager energy and more than half a day to savor the moment of finally getting hitched.

Etiquette in a morning wedding

A morning wedding can be formal, semi-formal or informal. The bride can be outfitted with a short wedding dress or suit. In a formal morning wedding, the bride’s gown should touch the floor and veil fingertip or slightly below the middle knuckle of the mid finger. A fingertip veil becomes more attractive when it is used with an elbow length blusher. For a semi-formal morning wedding, the gloves and blusher veils are optional.

The groom’s attire is typically composed of a business, sportcoat or morning suit in accordance to the level of formality. In a semi-formal morning wedding, proper etiquette dictates that the groom can sport a dark stroller or suit without black or gray tails. In a formal wedding, a morning suit, which is composed of gray pinstripe trousers, ascot, gray vest and a cutaway coat, is suffice. The groom also has the option to wear a tuxedo if he wants to.

The groom and bride’s attire should complement each other. If the bride is wearing a casual short wedding dress, then the groom should wear a business suit or sportcoat instead of a tuxedo.

Regardless whether the wedding is during the morning or late in the evening, there is a certain etiquette that should be followed in the ceremony.

– Bridesmaids and groomsmen should assist in the ceremonies if the morning wedding is not held strictly in private.

– The bridesmaids should not have dresses that is not too eye-catching but will match the wedding dress. In addition, they should be younger than the bride. The dresses can contain more ornaments and should consist of light, graceful fabric. Flowers should serve as the main decoration.

– The wedding dress should be simple but elegant and can be decorated with few ornaments or jewels that come from the parents or the bridegroom. The dress needs to have an attractive veil and garland.

– The bride needs to be assisted by her bridesmaids in wearing the wedding dress, receiving visitors and locate themselves at her left side. The first bridesmaid for easy access should keep the bouquet and gloves.

– The clergyman should be received by the groomsmen and led to the couple that will be married. They will also serve as assistants for the bridegroom, during the occasion.

– Guests should wear something light and fresh. A breezy dress or a light-colored suit would be appropriate. Those who are fond of hats are in luck in a morning wedding, as wearing one will complement the ease and energy of the ceremonies. Dark suits and dresses should be avoided.

The Wedding Breakfast

If the bride appears during breakfast proper etiquette dictates that she sits beside her husband at the center table, while the father and mother occupy the top to bottom and greets the guests coming in. Once the cake has been cut and every one has eaten, which include offering a toast to the new couple and giving acknowledgements, the bride and groom meet with their friends and eventually exit from the ceremony.

The newly-married couple can start in their wedding journey at around two or three o’clock, while the rest of the guests and family member depart from the reception area shortly after.